In the last article, with a little help from Elmer Towns, I noted features of the Baby Boomer generation. Today, I look at some of the defining moments for my generation, the Gen Xers. Some of these features distinguished us from the Boomers: we didn’t enjoy the same promise of an increasingly lucrative lifestyle, for instance. Some features, like the distrust of institutions, continue to have influence from the previous generation.

Latchkey Kids

There are some more specific and unique aspects to my generation. One phenomenon was latchkey kids. Most parents today won’t let their kids stand at the school bus stand alone. I get it; I have three daughters. The idea of them coming home with a key around their neck and being alone for hours, or even walking home from school, seems like a very foreign idea to me.

But I grew up a latchkey kid in New York City. I didn’t live in a good neighborhood. I grew up just outside of New York City in a place called Floral Park and in a specific place called Levittown. In the 1970s, our area was in economic crisis; there were crime and drugs, and yet still we walked home to our empty homes while our parents worked.

At that time, many people said the consequences of latchkey kids would be unimaginable. We would see the destruction of society. However, what we have seen is that often we underestimate the resilience of people and thus many of us turned out just fine.

Cable TV

My generation saw the rise of cable TV in general and specifically cable news, with stations like MTV and ESPN, along with the rise of 24-hour news. It’s hard to comprehend how completely these and similar networks revolutionized sports, music, and news. We have a numerous college football bowl games and March Madness is a thing in no small part due to ESPN.

I still remember when CNN came on. I remember James Earl Jones’ voice saying, “This is CNN.” I remember shows like MASH, Good Times, and The Jefferson’s—shows that reacted to the Ozzie and Harriet world. This was when we saw a number of gutsy people of color begin to show up and when we started to see them more commonplace on television.


Mine was the first generation to be fully attached to computers. I’ve actually never typed a paper on a typewriter, but I started early with computers.

Some people see Gen Xers as independent, skeptical, cynical, pragmatic, and impatient, and those who prefer business casual clothing. Today, a lot of Gen Xers are taking over established mission and ministry organizations, and the results have been mixed. Leadership styles have changed and this has not always been received well.

Sometimes, the organization has already shifted generationally as a result of the influence of lower-level leaders in the organization. Those in the lower levels tend to be younger, and when they see a Boomer move out of a role, a Gen Xer or even a millennial will likely seek to step into that role.

This has created problems. In many places, there’s organizational dissonance because Baby Boomers are more accustomed to saying, “We’re going to do this,” whereas Gen Xers tend to say, “Let’s sit down and talk about what we’re going to do.”

A Shift Toward Pluralism

Think about the television shows popular among GenX youth and how they differed from previous generations. Star Trek, for example, declared that we would “boldly go where no one has gone before.” Star Trek premiered September 8, 1966 on CBS. It’s a fascinating hierarchical structure with the idea is that there is one person who makes all the difference.

But then my generation came along and we watched Friends, where a group of people sat around and had amazing conversations for hours on end. None of them seemed to work and yet they had great places to live in New York City. It was a very mixed and confusing message. Pluralism, a mark of my generation, is on display in Friends, who played a role in redefining relationships from a monogamous marriage to cohabitation.

If we talk about missions in the past, we think about a David Hesselgrave who could speak and move us by the force of his personality and the strength of his scholarship.

We don’t see that anymore.

People from my generation are likely to ask more questions than to give bold assertions. It’s not that there’s no altruism or that Gen Xer are only looking out for themselves. But there is a certain sense of, “I need to stand up and I need to speak up for me.” This does impact how we talk about missions across generations.

Next I will talk about Millennials.

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